27/12/2023
I tend to get a little kawawa this time of year without realizing it especially if we’re not back in the Bay for the holidays.
Hard to believe we had to say goodbye to Lolo 9 years ago today. And Lola would have turned 93 on Saturday! I miss watching them dance at the NYE parties. I miss Lolo’s silly jokes and Lola offering a goblet of wine and all the food the minute we walk through the door. I miss them.
I used to feel silly whenever I’d catch myself crying when thinking of them, but then I came across a clip of Andrew Garfield talking about grief and his late mom that I thought was so beautiful and reframed my thinking.
“…I hope this grief stays with me because it's all the unexpressed love that I didn't get to tell her.”
To everyone missing a loved one, sending you lots of love.
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🎵🎤 Lolo used to sing and play this song on the piano