07/08/2026
“Marry the right person. It’ll make the most difference in your life. It’ll change your aspirations, all kinds of things.” -Buffet
A little back story: Josh was 19 and I was 17 when we met. 21 and 19 we got married.
We had no idea where life would lead us, but when Josh was praying that God would show me where our relationship should go while we were apart on our 1 month overseas mission trip, God told me I’d marry him. But I couldn’t tell him that bc I thought he would get so freaked out since we’d only been together for 2 months 😆
So I just said, “I don’t think we should break up.” And he said, “ok.”
A few months later, we broke up…. But got back together 12 hours later bc neither of us could make sense of it.
If you ask Josh how he knew I was “the one”, he’d tell you he had no idea if I was even as he was walking down the aisle.
But here’s what we have known 100% every single day we’ve known each other: we definitely make each other better.
So we made a pact that the “D” word didn’t need to be said, even when we were the maddest at one another.
After all, I know Josh has made me dream bigger, fight harder, and make the biggest splash every single day since he entered my life.
Likewise, I’m super intentional about serving and honoring and helping him run as fast and as far as he can.
After 20 years, we’ve made each other better… all because our mission, our goal, and our deepest desire continues to be to serve one another.
It hasn’t always been easy, but marrying you has made the most difference in my life. I love you, Joshua Wesley Cagle!
Look at where 20 years got us 🥹🤍
p.s. he said this entire song to me before he proposed 😭