07/09/2026
There was a time, years ago, where the thought of living on my family property was appalling. Not because there’s anything wrong with my family (I mean, there is something wrong with us, but that’s just generations of undiagnosed adhd and plain ol weirdness. 😉). We all get along most of the time and respect boundaries etc… But I was an independent woman with a husband and my own kids and wanted to make my own life…on my own. 💁🏻♀️
If Lauren from back then could see me now. 🤣 We’ve been on the compound for almost 9 years now and I can’t imagine life any other way. To live on land surrounded by my parents, sisters, even my husbands brother and his family, is a gift. I know this. I’m grateful.
I’m grateful that my dad had a dream 23 years ago to buy a house on land so that one day his kids could build on it. My 20 year old self rolled my eyes at that idea. I was young and dumb and mad that my parents moved me away from the city I grew up in to a country town I’d never been to.
I quickly grew to love it here though and soon my goal of moving straight back as soon as I could, wasn’t a goal anymore. I still didn’t want to build on their land, but the town was a place I wanted to stay. I met Louis and he loved it here too so we stayed.
When we finally decided to move to the family property when I was pregnant for baby number 4, my whole perspective had changed. I wanted my kids to grow up surrounded by a village and that is what is happening. Everyday I’m grateful for my dad’s forethought and wisdom. He played the long game, and he’s winning. He blessed us with the land to build and that’s priceless.
Today as I was sitting by the pool that my parents blessed the property with, watching my little kids swim, I thought “what if dad never bought this place and moved us?” It’s sad to think about. I’m so happy my kids get to grow up here like this.
There are many things in my life that aren’t good or perfect. Many things that haven’t gone the way I planned or wanted. But living on this property is pretty great. I’m very grateful for my dad’s dream and for this special piece of dirt he bought all those years ago and how it’s still blessing us to this day. I won’t ever take it for granted. ❤️