17/06/2026
We were deeply saddened to hear of Paul Messenger’s passing. Our thoughts are with his wife, Carol, and with his family and friends at this difficult time.
In the post below, Carol touches on the joy Paul found in music and the happiness he shared with so many through his performances.
Having seen this first-hand over the years he performed at The Swan, we wholeheartedly share those sentiments. He will be missed.
Yesterday, my beloved husband Paul passed away. Also known as One Love.
I don’t think there are enough words to describe the man he was, or the space he leaves behind. To me, he was my heart, my joy, and my best friend. To so many others, he was the man with the sunshine personality, the quick wit, and the ability to light up a room simply by walking into it.
Even in the face of unimaginable challenges, Paul never stopped being Paul. He fought with every ounce of strength he had, every step of the way. He met each setback with determination, courage, and often a joke or a smile that lifted the spirits of those around him. His resilience was extraordinary, but so too was his strength.
Music brought Paul immense joy, and through his music he gave joy to countless others. He loved to perform, to entertain, and to bring people together. The laughter, friendship, and happiness he created will live on in the memories of everyone fortunate enough to have known him.
In the coming weeks, a tribute concert will be arranged in his honour, a celebration befitting the happiness he brought to so many through his music and his presence. We hope it will be a chance for friends, family, and fellow musicians to come together, share memories, and celebrate a life that was lived with such spirit and generosity.
My heart is broken, but I am so grateful for every moment we shared, every laugh, every adventure, and every challenge we faced together. The love we shared was the greatest gift of my life.
Sleep peacefully, my darling. Thank you for the music, the laughter, the love, and the memories. You will be missed beyond words and loved beyond measure, always.
