07/09/2025
Ever since my son was little, he's been obsessed with collecting sticks on every single walk we took. I mean OBSESSED. Every hike, every beach trip, every neighborhood stroll - he'd come home with armfuls of the most random pieces of wood, convinced each one was a treasure.
We used to have these epic battles about stick limits because our house was literally overflowing with his collection. I'd be like "you can pick THREE sticks, that's it!" and he'd spend twenty minutes trying to negotiate for just one more perfect branch he'd found.
When he left for college, I missed those stick-collecting wars more than I ever thought I would. We didn't talk as much once he got absorbed in campus life, and I tried to give him space to figure out his own path. I kept finding random sticks around the house for months and it would just break my heart a little every time.
Last year he got sick and had to come home so we could take care of him. On his good days, we'd take short walks on the beach, and he'd still notice every piece of driftwood but didn't have the energy to pick them up anymore. So after each walk, I'd send my husband back to collect all the pieces my son had admired.
That's when I started researching driftwood art projects, trying to find a way to turn his lifetime collection into something meaningful. Found this incredible community of nature crafters on the Tedooo app (which apparently isn't just for shopping), who shared techniques for arranging and preserving beach wood. One woman had made a similar sunburst design for her garden and walked me through the whole process.
The doctors don't think we have much time left, but we managed to build this sculpture on our back fence before his birthday last week. When he saw it finished, he just stood there crying and kept apologizing for all the years he wasn't around. I wanted to ask if he felt at peace with everything, but I was too scared of the answer.
But in that moment, watching him see all those sticks he'd loved turned into something beautiful, he looked like he had everything he needed.
Our Old House